My Ex Boyfriend Is Seeing Someone - Should I Be Concerned If I Want Him Back?
One of the hardest things that a woman can have to deal with if she still wants to get back together with an ex boyfriend, is to hear that he has started to see someone else. You did not want to have to hear that. You were hoping that it would be easy to win him back. You were hoping that he was sitting around and thinking about you. To hear that he is dating another woman, it kind of makes you feel a pit in your stomach and you certainly do not want to feel that way. Should you be concerned if your ex boyfriend is dating someone else, and is this the sign that you need to just move on?
I know that you are probably hoping for me to say that there is nothing to be concerned about, but that is not the case. Yes, of course, you should have some concern if you hear that your ex boyfriend is dating a new woman.
Does that necessarily mean that you should forget about the possibility of getting him back?
No.
It does signal that a part of you should move on and in that sense, I mean that you need to be thinking of yourself more than you are of him. You should still consider the possibility that he is not the one and that maybe if you just get yourself comfortable with the idea that another man might be out there and he might be the one... it would probably do you some good.
It's never a good idea to get stuck on one guy, and if you can, you should think of it from this perspective. Wouldn't it be a much stronger sign that your ex boyfriend really is the one for you if you had something to compare him to?
A little thing that you need to know...
Your ex boyfriend is probably not going to feel like there is any reason at all for him to come back to you or give you another chance if he thinks that he can do this at any time that he wishes. When you see that he is dating someone else, you need to really take that as a sign for YOU to see someone else as well. Not only does this give your ex boyfriend a "push" to confront whatever feelings that he may have about you, but it also puts YOU in a much healthier place and in a place where you can make a really sound judgment on whether or not he really is the right guy.
If you are worried that this new woman in his life might be the one that he settles down with, then you really need to take action right now if you are going to win him back. You don't want to find out that there was the possibility that you COULD have had him back and you just kind of let him get away from you, do you?
